Chrysalis

QTBIPOC Transforming Together

chrys●a●lis: a protective space for growth and transformation.

At Chrysalis, we believe that navigating a crossroads shouldn't be a journey you take alone.

We partner with queer and trans BIPOC who are at a personal or professional turning point, helping you reclaim your power to make confident decisions about what's next and develop concrete strategies for moving in the direction of your purpose. Through our supportive, community-based programs, you'll gain clarity and a path forward.

Our Core Offerings

Whether you need personalized guidance or the strength of a collective, we offer three ways to engage in your transformation:

  • The Butterfly Effect

    Free, monthly gatherings where you connect with peers and apply collective wisdom to identify the small, intentional steps that create massive change.

  • Emergence Coaching

    Personalized 1:1 sessions with a professionally certified, QTBIPOC-identified coach to help you get unstuck, define your vision, and take intentional steps toward your goals.

  • Kaleidoscope

    This focused, structured cohort-based program guides you through transformation, where the power of a dedicated QTBIPOC community elevates your entire journey.

The Story Behind Chrysalis

Brian Arao, Ed.D. (he/him/his)

Brave Space Leadership

queer | cis | biracial/hapa

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T.J. Jourian, Ph.D. (he/him/his)

Trans*Formational Change

queer | trans | Middle Eastern

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We created Chrysalis because we know firsthand what it's like to struggle at a crossroads—and that for QTBIPOC, the difficulty is often more intense. The real-world discrimination and hurdles we face don't just put up external barriers; they also amplify self-doubt and make it hard to imagine what truly fulfilling options are available. We remember feeling constrained until our own peers, mentors, and coaches reminded us that we belong to a long lineage of QTBIPOC communities with proud traditions of using creativity, innovation, and brilliance to thrive. Now, we want to help you access and use those same gifts to envision and successfully pursue the next phases of your life in ways that align with your deepest values and bring you profound satisfaction and joy.

Testimonials

  • Chrysalis was an incredible experience. It allowed me to explore the intersections of my personal and professional identities and from the beginning the coaches created space for me to openly share my challenges and aspirations. Throughout the session, I felt genuinely heard and understood, as the coaches offered insightful feedback and strategic guidance tailored to my unique situation. They helped me identify my strengths and areas for growth, providing practical tools and techniques that I could immediately apply in my professional life.

    Gabe, Kaleidoscope 2025 participant

  • Chrysalis provided me with a supportive community where I felt affirmed and able to reflect on my career and educational journeys through in connection with my lived experience as a queer first generation xicana. T.J. and Brian created a thoughtful and intentional space that helped me reconnect with my values and make meaningful choices about my life and career path.

    Tracy, Kaleidoscope 2025 participant

Ready to spread your wings and fly with us?

Take the next step toward clarity and transformation. We offer multiple pathways to connect with the Chrysalis community and begin your journey.

Experience The Butterfly Effect: Ready for your first moment of collective change? Apply now to join our free, facilitated monthly gathering.

Book a Free Discovery Call with Brian or T.J.: Connect with Brian or T.J. for a confidential 15-minute conversation to review your goals and determine if Emergence Coaching or Kaleidoscope is the right fit.

Join Our Mailing List: Don't miss out on upcoming Butterfly Effect topics, Kaleidoscope cohort dates, new resources, and special events